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Jan. 3rd, 2009 | 10:08 am
mood: calm calm

 Happy New Year! I hope everyone had a wonderful and safe welcome to the year, and I must say that I'm looking forward to the year ahead. Even though it's the last Saturday of my glorious winter vacation, I feel pretty good about my productivity and relaxation these last couple weeks.

I've been doing some writing (and sent my beta the next TWO chapters of Many the Miles -- but give her, and then me, some time to work on those since it's about 16,000 words that she has to edit and I'll have to fix. *g*).

I've spent major amounts of quality time with M, who, despite living with me, I felt like I hadn't seen in forever given the crazy semester he endured. We managed to clean out our bedroom, closets, office and kitchen/pantry and trashed/recycled/donated a ton of stuff. Just the act of decluttering so much makes me feel better. It was a daunting task, but we did it. And after the last couple weeks of actually taking the time to talk and take care of one another, in many ways, I feel like we're closer than ever. Pretty amazing after being together for 11 years. 

I've spent a lot of time reading pro-fic. I had a conversation with [info]ariaadagio recently about books, and she ended up giving me a huge list of recommended reads based on our similar tastes. I've read the first book of the Dark Hunter series by Sherrilyn Kenyon, and I just started reading Outlander by Diana Gabaldon. I've enjoyed both so far, and I intend to read all the books in both series this year. (I also intend to get a library card because all of these trips to Barnes & Noble and Borders--my two favorite stores--are going to bankrupt me.)

Finally, although I tend to hate New Year's Resolutions, that didn't stop me from setting goals for myself for 2009. 

There are 9 specific things. Some will be easy, others far more challenging.

1. I want to lose 50 pounds. I've struggled with weight all of my life, and while losing 50 pounds still wouldn't put me at my ideal weight, it would get me close. I want to be healthy and in good shape for a variety of reasons, and it's just time for me to get my act together and do it. I won't burden my flist with the details of my trials and tribulations on this journey, but I do have a separate weight loss blog for anyone who is interested.

2. I need to take the GRE. I tried to schedule a date for it a couple months ago (it was going to be today, in fact), but the website was down at the time, and I took it as a sign. *g* I need to take it this spring, however, and I want to skullfuck it, so studying will be necessary--especially for the verbal part. I suck at analogies.

3. I want to create basic daily routines that I can follow to keep my life in order. Although parts of it are pretty hokey, I like the basic idea of the FlyLady system, and I want to try incorporating that into my life to help me stay organized. 

4. I want to get my lesson plans done during the week so I don't have to haul that crap home with me and use my weekend time to do it. I was able to do this at the beginning of the year, and then I stopped. I need my weekends to be work-free if I'm going to preserve my sanity.

5. I hope to average writing 750 words/day. At my peak during NaNoWriMo, I could do that in a half hour. It won't all be fanfic or even fic, necessarily, but some sort of writing. And it's an average, so I can get by if I miss a couple days here and there.

6. I want to read at least 250 pages of pro-fic each week. As long as I find books that are interesting, that should be an easy goal for me. I've become a far better reader in the last year, and I want that trend to continue.

7. I'm going to apply for National Board Certification for my career. It's an arduous process, but one that will make me a better teacher and make me more marketable as I move towards getting a PhD.

8. I want to attend a Reading and Writing program held at the Teacher's College at Columbia this summer. It's a two week program that is incredibly bad ass, but it aligns well with my professional goals and interests, and I've always wanted to do it. This is the first year that it's potentially feasible for me.

9. I want to be a better parent to my dog, Franklin. He's a great dog, and he needs more attention from M and me. I want to take him for longer walks -- at least 30 minutes -- three times a week, or at the very least, play with him that long to help him be more active. He's got a ton of energy, and I'm sure that the behavior problems we've had with him last year stemmed from the fact that we were too busy to take great care of him. The weather has been crappy the last couple days, so we haven't had a ton of outdoor time, but we've been playing fetch with tennis balls a lot in our condo.

So that's it. Do-able, but challenging. What about you guys? Any resolutions/goals you want to share?  

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liljan98

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date: Jan. 3rd, 2009 04:17 pm (UTC)
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I admire you for all these resolutions. This year I get mine down to a minimum and didn't make anything very specific, because I suck at keeping those. I don't know if not making any spefic resolution is reasonable though :-) Anyway I plan to loose some weight and more important get into better shape this year as well. I gained about 20 pounds during the last 2 years after loosing about 45 pounds af few years before. And of course I'm still overweight and more important out of shape. That sucks even more than the weight. I booked a first training session at a gym already, mainly because of my back problems. But it will be a start to get into shape and the loosing weight might follow as well. Anyway I wish you luck with achieving all of your goals in 2009.

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Alison's House of Grey

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from: [info]greysaddict522
date: Jan. 3rd, 2009 05:21 pm (UTC)
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That's awesome that you're doing a training session at a gym. The exercise part is honestly the hardest thing for me, especially on the days that I work. I can do okay with the food choices, but getting off my butt and exercising either early in the morning or after a full day of work is something that I need to improve on. I'm hoping that my recent purchase of a Wii Fit will help me with that. :) Good luck with the gym, though, and hopefully that will help your back problems regardless of the weight loss (though I suspect the two will go together).

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liljan98

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date: Jan. 3rd, 2009 05:57 pm (UTC)
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I'm with you on the hardest part being the excercise. I hope it will work out for me though and that I can fit the sessions into my schedule. I'll plan to do a lot of cycling again, in the spring and summer, because I usually like doing that (once I got my lazy butt off the couch). I'm curious to read how the Wii Fit thing will work out for you :)

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s0lid_air

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from: [info]s0lid_air
date: Jan. 3rd, 2009 08:32 pm (UTC)
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I haven't made any resolutions for the past few years. I find as the year passes, I find myself disappointed in my failures. So I set myself objectives and goals. Not too many. They must be achievable. After all, Rome wasn't built in a day. In early 2006 I suffered a breakdown after my best friend left me - it didn't help matters that I was in love with him. It took me a year to work past my issues. I was so ashamed and wanted to hide it. In 2007 my health was what I needed to work on. I smoked and drank a lot -- for years. My work life was incredibly stressful and drinking went with the job. It took me six months to work up to it but on July 1st 2007 I smoked my last cigarette. It helped that England introduced a ban on smoking in public places. Bars were out of bounds for me too since smoking and drinking are best friends. I have fallen off the wagon on a few occasions but essentially, the habit has been broken. Then I feel like crap after.
2008 was about confidence and rebuilding what I'd lost.
I'm going somewhere with this, I promise.
2009 was going to be about education. I want to learn how to write. I'd like to do a Creative Writing course. I'd like to be brave enough to post something I have written online. I want to do an access course for university where I'd like to study Psychology with Counseling. This is a million miles away from what I currently do. I get bored quickly and worry that I'd lack the commitment. So, If I were to start with Creative Writing, I can see if I can commit to something bigger and more long term. However, the company I work for has just -- on Christmas Eve, been put into administration which means the banks are in control of our assets. My job is not secure. Time to re-think those objectives... Oh yeah, Running Club. My friend is starting a running club. First task, playlists for Running Club. Now that I can do...

I wish you all the best with your goals for 2009, and a Happy New Year. Thank you for all the writing you've shared with us. I look forward to the next chapters of MTM.
It's Saturday night, I'm off to the pub...I'll cut down drinking in 2010 ;)

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Alison's House of Grey

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from: [info]greysaddict522
date: Jan. 4th, 2009 05:45 pm (UTC)
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Congratulations on quitting smoking. My parents are both smokers (and have gifted me with asthma as a result), and they've both tried unsuccessfully to quit for years. It's sad seeing them both so addicted, so I can really appreciate what an accomplishment it is to break that.

I can completely relate to the phenomenon of getting bored easily. It's one of the reasons I ultimately became an elementary teacher. I get to teach all subjects, so I'm constantly learning new things. Some years I dig into the math, other years the science or social studies. But my passion has definitely become the writing. I hope you get to do the creative writing course. That sounds fantastic! You'll have to let me know how that goes and what it's like, and of course, I'd love to read anything that you write. I know I find writing to be incredibly cathartic...and far cheaper than therapy. :)

Hope you had a wonderful night at the pub, and good luck this year!

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darkandtwisty02

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from: [info]darkandtwisty02
date: Jan. 4th, 2009 03:10 am (UTC)
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I really wish I had your ambition! I need to actually make some, I've thought about them but just have been so busy. I know that's not a good excuse. I really wish you the best of luck in your goals, I'm sure you'll get there!

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Alison's House of Grey

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from: [info]greysaddict522
date: Jan. 4th, 2009 05:47 pm (UTC)
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Thanks for the encouragement! I'm sure the fact that my husband is a workaholic and we have no children makes it far easier for me to be ambitious. I'm trying to get some major life goals out of the way now because I know I won't always have the luxury of so much freedom.

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darkandtwisty02

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from: [info]darkandtwisty02
date: Jan. 4th, 2009 05:49 pm (UTC)
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Yeh, having three kids does kinda detour me of my goals. But one things for sure I'm going to make sure once spring hits I'm going to get my walks in everynight. that's something I need, some me time at night just to myself. A little me time plus some exercise.

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piperhollyalway

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from: [info]piperhollyalway
date: Jan. 17th, 2009 04:48 am (UTC)
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well i hope your having a good 2009, i just feel nice i just need some to talk to since i feel hopeless. most of my friends are out parting and i fee alone but i wll be ok thanks the the encourgrment quess just need to buck up

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